Child Dedication and Blessing

General Information

Our Child Dedication and Blessing is a private ceremony for you and your family and friends.

It seeks to bind the child to their community by way of promises from the parents, God- (or Guardian) parents, older brother, sisters, grandparents, and the family and friends who will part of the child’s life.

This service is available to both members of our congregation and non-members as well.

If the number of attendees is less than 25, we can gather in a cozy group around the dedication font where there is a comfortable bench for elderly family members to sit down. Or, for larger groups, we can go into our magnificent Sanctuary.

Sanctuary view of the Baptistry

     View of the Baptistry

The God- (or Guardian) parents make the water “holy” by having a sense of their love for your child. We use the water and a rosebud without thorns to welcome, dedicate, and bless your child.

Using the words prepared by the minister, the parents, God- (or Guardian) parents, grandparents, and the community make promises. We adjust the language to be meaningful to you.

The service takes about 15 to 20 minutes. Although photographs are not allowed during the ceremony, a small video camera can be used. Afterwards, we will step through the ceremony elements so that regular photos can be taken.

How to Arrange for This Ceremony

First, speak to our Ashley Lessa, Congregational Life Coordinator, in the front office by calling 508-992-7081, or emailing office@uufairhaven.org. Please leave your name, number, and a few dates you are interested in. Then, she will assist you with pricing and paperwork. If you wish to go forward with the ceremony, you will be sent a booking form.

When we receive your booking form and checks in the mail with your choice of blessing words, your date and time will be confirmed. The minister will call you to arrange a short meeting with the parents (baby can come too) to discuss the words of the ceremony and to answer all of your questions prior to the ceremony date! 

The Reception

Most families have a social gathering afterwards at their home, grandparents’ home, restaurant, or rented hall. If your party is large, you might like to consider a celebration in our Parish House. Please let Ashley know upon booking the dedication if you are interested in a reception, and she will assist you with booking and choosing an appropriate space on our campus for your gathering.